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Jun 7, 2026

Baby Showers in Japan

Yesterday I wrote about "Baby Shower Day". But now I am curious - have you ever been to a Baby Shower in Japan? And if so, was it for and / or organized by a Japanese person or a foreigner? And FYI, in case you haven't noticed it yet, we can now see how many views our posts are getting again! Baby shower post: https://www.city-cost.com/blogs/BigfamJapan/weBpJ-living_saitama_tokyo

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Former nickname was "Saitama". Changed it to save confusion on place review posts! Irish, 20+ years in Japan! I also write on my personal website: insaitama.com

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  • TonetoEdo

    TonetoEdo

    on Jun 7

    I've never been to a baby shower in Japan. Maybe it's got to do with my demographic - middle-aged foreign woman with few friends and coworkers in their childbearing years. But I have participated in a wedding shower for an Australian marrying a Japanese partner. I wonder if my Canadian family's goofy tradition is widespread. We make a hat for the bride or new mum from a paper plate, and trim it with the ribbons and decorations from the gifts. I introduced this "tradition" to my Aussie bride friend. Lots of fun!

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  • BigfamJapan

    BigfamJapan

    on Jun 7

    @TonetoEdo I was thrown a baby shower in Japan for my first born, but by an American and all the women attending were foreign. She threw them and I attended for other people too. But I have never heard of a Japanese person organizing one or having one organized for them, even in my childbearing years.

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  • genkidesu

    genkidesu

    on Jun 8

    I have been to a few, but they were very much among the American contingent of friends I made here. I don't feel like they are really a thing here in Japan, or maybe I am wrong! I didn't want a baby shower when I had my kids, I feel like in my home country it's probably 50/50 as to who opts to have a baby shower and who doesn't.

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  • TonetoEdo

    TonetoEdo

    on Jun 9

    @BigfamJapan Oh, I just recalled while going through old journals that I did, in fact, attend a baby shower. The host was a local ryokan owner who threw a baby shower for a neighbour. We were a mix of locals and foreign residents. The gifts included new items and a chance to pass on hand-me-downs - osagari - to other moms.

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