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Nov 25, 2018

Getting dressed for 7-5-3 ceremony

My eldest daughter had a shichigosan (7-5-3) celebration yesterday. This was her second, she had one when she turned three. This year the celebration was for turning seven years old earlier in the year. Girls celebrate at seven and three years old, boys celebrate at five years old.

Getting dressed for 7-5-3 ceremony photo

We are very lucky that we have a certified professional kimono dresser in the family. She dressed my daughter and did her hair. I had to laugh, because it took almost as long as it took me to get ready (excluding make up) for my wedding!  Some children do have make up done, each to their own, but its not for us. 

Getting dressed for 7-5-3 ceremony photo


All in all it took 90 minutes for my seven year old daughter to get dressed and her hair done for her shichigosan celebration. The dressing is so elaborate with layers among layers. I had forgotten how much stuff goes on underneath the kimono. The obi also takes more time than you'd realise to get it in exactly the right position and looking as aesthetic as possible. Same with the hair. A lot of children go with more basic hair with less adorning, but our dresser wanted to give her a more traditional look.


She did really well wearing the kimono for the better part of a day. I remember when my niece had her ceremony she changed into casual clothes right after the ceremony. And those that hire their kimono need to get it back by a certain time. But as much as she relished wearing it, she was glad to get out of it by the end of the day. For the record: it took her the whole of five minutes to get undressed! 

BigfamJapan

BigfamJapan

Former nickname was "Saitama". Changed it to save confusion on place review posts! Irish, 20+ years in Japan! I also write on my personal website: insaitama.com


2 Comments

  • edthethe

    on Nov 26

    Love this!!! and her hair! I am a little sad that I'm not dressing my son up and prancing him around for pictures. I saw so many cute kids over the weekend though

  • BigfamJapan

    on Nov 26

    @edthethe we are very lucky that my MIL is a kimono dresser and so we are able to do this for our girls. But for my son he just did it in a suit... we had a newborn at the time and the last thing i wanted to do was spend two hours in a hakama dresser's place! One day though, I will get him dressed up in hakama for a few photos. Even if he is well past the usual age!! :-D